Affirming His Importance
There are countless ways to show your boyfriend how much you appreciate him and make him feel loved and valued. Here are 20 ideas to get you started:
| 1. Tell him how much you love him. |
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| Be sincere and direct. Tell him how you feel about him and why you love him. |
| 2. Show him affection. |
| Hug him, kiss him, hold his hand, and cuddle with him. Show him how much you enjoy his physical presence. |
| 3. Compliment him. |
| Tell him how handsome he is, how much you like his new haircut, or how much you appreciate his sense of humor. |
| 4. Show interest in his life. |
| Ask him about his day, his job, his hobbies, and his dreams. Listen to him and really hear what he has to say. |
| 5. Spend quality time with him. |
| Make time for each other, even if it’s just for a few minutes each day. Go on dates, do activities together, or just relax and talk. |
| 6. Support his goals and dreams. |
| Be his biggest cheerleader. Encourage him to pursue his goals and dreams, and be there for him when he needs you. |
| 7. Be there for him when he needs you. |
| Be there for him through thick and thin. Let him know that you’re always there for him, no matter what. |
| 8. Express your gratitude. |
| Tell him how much you appreciate him and all he does for you. Let him know how grateful you are to have him in your life. |
| 9. Surprise him with a special gift. |
| It doesn’t have to be anything expensive or elaborate. Just something small and thoughtful to show him how much you care. |
| 10. Be a good listener. |
| This is key to maintaining any healthy relationship. Be present when your boyfriend is talking to you, and really listen to what he has to say. Show him that you’re interested in what he’s saying by asking questions and making eye contact. |
